Last Updated on November 9, 2025

Yesterday I had a friend tell me she sometimes runs out of things to talk about to her man, which got me thinking. Wouldn’t it be nice if someone made a list of conversation starters for couples that could be used by a husband and wife for a whole month?

Then I got to thinking, well, dang … I’m a writer.

I hope these conversation starters bless you! And stay tuned…I have some for your kids coming next!

A Month of Easy Conversation Starters for Couples

Day 1: My funniest memory of our dating days is when…

Day 2: Our kids would freak out if they knew we…

Day 3: Before we are together in heaven, I pray that here on earth we…

Day 4: I have this memory of you in a certain outfit, remember…

Day 5: The most scared you have ever been was…

Day 6: The happiest you have ever been was…

Day 7: I remember thinking I was courageous when I was young because I…

Day 8: I used to always wish I could…

Day 9: If I could spend a day just talking to any one person, it would be…

Day 10: I wish I had learned to …

Day 11: I picture us old, sitting in a rocking chair and you looking over at me and saying, daggum it we never…

Day 12: If I could spend 24 hours doing anything in the world with you, it would be…

Day 13: I like it best when you refer to me as…

Day 14: The song that always makes me think of you is…

Day 15: My sweetest memory of us in our youth is when we…

Day 16: My favorite memory of our wedding day is…

Day 17: My greatest need right now as a woman is to…

Day 18: My greatest need right now as a man is to…

Day 19: If I could have any superhero power, it would be to…

Day 20: If I could eat anything and it not effect my health, I would have a feast on…

Day 21: If I could have lived in a different decade, it would be…

Day 22: I laugh every time I think of you doing…

Day 23: I would so enjoy reading out loud together…

Day 24: If we could be roadies for any musical talent, I would choose…

Day 25: If I had it to do over, I would propose to you by…

Day 26: The world’s best anniversary trip would be to go to…

Day 27: My favorite photo of us is the one where…

Day 28: Do you know it scares me so much to…

Day 29: When I remember back to when we fell in love my favorite thing about you back then was…

Day 30: I feel you love me the most when you…

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*This post was originally published August 10, 2012

8 Comments

These are awesome, Tracey! I need to do these with my husband!!

This is so helpful in marriage-to keep learning new things about each other. GREAT QUESTIONS!

(BTW-I do this every time I have company….we all get a question to answer…makes for learning fun things about friends you’ve known for a long time or just fun to learn about new friends, too!)