It’s hard not to get caught up in the hustle and bustle that has become December. With Christmas cards, class parties, and gifts to buy … it’s hard to find time to just be together. Spending time together as a family, however, is one of the most important ways we can instill the real meaning of Christmas into the hearts of our children.
Here are just a few ways we are attempting to make the most of Christmas with our children this year:
- One-meal-a-day policy: Our schedules are crazier than ever, but we’ve decided to eat one at least one meal together each day where we all spend time together around the table eating, talking, and reflecting on the day. If this can’t happen at dinnertime, we make sure we eat together at breakfast or at lunch. Mealtimes offer us the single greatest opportunity to converse with our children.
- Turning our hearts to Christ: In an effort to focus our attention to Christ, we are currently working through the Truth in the Tinsel eBook (specifically for preschoolers) as well as opening an Advent box each day. Both of these resources have helped us to focus on the true meaning of Christmas–celebrating the birth of Christ! Through hands-on and tactile experiences, our children are learning about the story of Christ’s birth as well as how the birth of this tiny baby has affected the entire world.
- Three gifts: Last year we decided to give each of our children three gifts for Christmas (in addition to their stocking from Santa). This kept our own consumerism in check by not allowing us to go completely overboard lavishing gifts on our children. Jesus received three gifts, after all!
- Unwrap a book each day: Reading to our children is another way that we can spend quality, meaningful time together as a family. This year I gathered up all of our Christmas books we had from previous years and wrapped each one individually. Every day until Christmas, our boys will “unwrap” one book.
- December 23: Both of our families live in town, so Christmas Eve and Christmas day are spent shuffling from house to house. We decided to start our own tradition of December 23 being our “day.” We don’t open gifts until Christmas morning, but we do other special traditions together like driving around to look at Christmas lights and making sugar cookies together. This is one of my favorite parts of the entire holiday as we get to spend time enjoying each other.
No matter what your schedule looks like this Christmas, take time to spend some unhurried moments with your children each day. Those precious moments are when we can instill in the hearts of our children the true reason for the season.
* Originally published December 2012
Hi friends! I’m Jenae, the wife of an amazing man and mother to two adorable little boys. Prior to becoming a Mama, I taught a class full of bright-eyed six-year olds all about phonics, sight words, and addition. I now have the pleasure of being able to stay home with the two precious blessings God has entrusted to us. (Well, it’s a pleasure most days… some days it is just plain exhausting!) In addition to fixing quesadillas, making runs for my daily “prescription” of Dr. Pepper, and trying not to step on one of the hundreds of hot wheels that litter my floor, I also share fun and educational ideas for young children at ICanTeachMyChild.com. Above all else, I hope to point my children towards Christ and be an example of grace and love to all those around me.