A Single Mom’s Late Night Lunchbox Labors of Love

Last Updated on August 29, 2018

So the other day I’m dragging my kids through the grocery store purchasing lunch items and for the gazillionth time they asked for those pre-packaged lunch thingies.  As a former teacher, I have to admit I thought only lazy parents who didn’t care about the nutritional value of their children’s lunches bought Lunchables.   But I succumbed – call it exhaustion, call it weakness, call it desperation, but I bought them all one.  And oh!  I am a changed woman!!!

Last night, completely exhausted (as always), I slouched toward my kitchen at 11 pm, but then, Oh glorious thought! – I remembered that I had bought Lunchables that afternoon.  No need to think about lunches, make lunches, pack lunches or nothin’!!!  I was done!  WooHoo!!  Any single parent should be allowed to do Lunchables every day!

Does anyone else just simply want to weep about school lunches?  Man, I hate making ‘em.  It is such a trial trying to think of things that will make my children’s lunchboxes the envy of all others.  I want them to find everything yummy.  I want their teachers to look in their lunchboxes and think, “My, what a wonderful mother this child has!  Look at that lunch – nutritious, delicious and just simply perfect.”   I doubt that happens.  I don’t think it’s possible at this point in my life to impress anyone – much less do anything perfectly.

Each night after I complete the one hundred… no one thousand little tasks associated with being a single mom and feeding, helping, encouraging, bathing, brushing, reading to, loving on and kissing good night five children –  it’s time to trudge down the stairs and head to my kitchen to start the nightly process of lunch making.

I’m getting good at making it in a flash – provided I actually have the necessary ingredients.  It’s a bitter night when I realize I have no bread except the hard outer slab, or the only piece of fruit left is a shriveled lemon, or there is one juice box for 5 lunch boxes.   AHHHH!!!!  And being a single parent means that you can’t run to the grocery store at 11 pm.  Necessity is the mother of ingenuity (well invention but I’m not that smart).  I have discovered many ways to make lunches out of pantry staples and cans of various things — plastic storage containers of multiple sizes have become some of my dearest friends.

The Lunchable day ended and I picked my cuties up from school.  Their lunchboxes were empty EXCEPT for a little cup of chocolate pudding which my 3-year old opened and proceeded to smear everywhere in the backseat.   Not sure I like Lunchables anymore.

I guess I am destined to be a peanut butter and jelly fixing, canned fruit giving, apple juice thermos pouring Momma who doesn’t worry so much about what other people think about my children’s lunchboxes, but rather focuses on making sure my sweeties know that their Mom considers every late night lunchbox prep a labor of love.

What is your best tip for back-to-school lunches?

Sue Birdseye

Sue Birdseye is an author and communicator who shares the adventures she has on her unexpected journey of single parenting. She went from the typical “picket fence” kind of life to being a single mom to five beautiful children. She has learned what it means to be totally dependent upon the Lord and how beautiful that dependence is. Her change of life circumstances has led to a passionate desire to encourage and bless other moms no matter their life circumstances. She has been active in her community as a foster/adoptive mom and public school teacher. She has also been part of her church’s worship, discipleship, women’s, and children’s ministries. She is an avid book reader, a game night hoster, and an early morning writer. Her book “When Happily Ever After Shatters” is the story of how God stepped into her life and the lives of her children just when everything seemed to be falling apart. She hopes that her writing will encourage, bless, and maybe even make someone smile.